Bullies at school reflect the restrictive, denying,
high-pressure, demanding, non- communicating, dominating nature of
parents or older siblings at home. Older siblings in turn learn it from
the parents.
It could also
signal a claustrophobic environment at home for the kid. When the kid
feels he is not being attended to, listened to, given importance to, he
vents out that feeling of hatred on others...
Older siblings can also be the cause of the bullying problem. If they've been bullied, they are more apt to bully
a younger sibling to feel more secure or empower themselves. Very often
parents are bullies, are angry, or don't handle conflict well.
Kids
usually bully because they learn this behavior at home.
Actually
the parents are the culprits, punish them, castigate them, ostracise
them, then only they learn how to behave with their children well and in
turn, their children will behave with their friends in school and
college well.
So sad when innocent lives are trampled by bullies !
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